The Summer of Wearing It All | Part 3
Tuesday, July 23, 2019For this set of outfits I decided to wear items that I still owned from 2011, when I did the Wearing It All challenge the first time around.
We'd just moved, everything was chaos, and as I unpacked my clothes I wondered if I really needed so many, that's when the Wearing It All challenge was born.
Below are the first three items, 2019 on the top row, 2011 on the bottom.
The white jeans have recently been rescued from the charity bag. After I read that it takes 1,800 gallons of water to make just one pair of jeans, I vowed to wear all my jeans until they literally fall apart. They're good for summer afternoon BBQs, family gatherings, when you just don't know what else to wear and need something semi smart.
The grey skirt isn't something that's been worn a lot but I love it. It's a really soft material, and has pockets! I wore it last year, probably for the first time since 2011. A few hours after the photo was taken back then, Andy arrived home and told me that his Grandma had passed away. We hadn't been together many years and I'd only met her a handful of times but she was lovely, and deeply loved by her family. She'd been unwell for some time and we'd been to see her a few days before, and I'm so glad that we did. This skirt always makes me think of her.
Next up I wore some shorts (below) that I never thought would see the light of day again. I really like them, which is probably why I hung onto them for so long, but as I stepped into my late thirties I had a wobble about what I should and shouldn't wear. These shorts seemed too short, but now that I'm in my 40s I just think 'stuff it'.
Perhaps my legs aren't as slender as they once were, they have a few wobbly and dimpled bits, and they're as pale as porcelain but they're strong and part of me, and I don't give a stuff about what others decide is appropriate for 'a woman of my age'. If I like it, I'll wear it, and I like these shorts.
I've had the jeans for a long time, I bought them before I met Andy, which makes them over a decade old. When they were new they were a dark wash, even back in 2011 they'd lost a lot of their colour.
They've been patched many times, the first hole appearing after I accidentally stuck them to my leg with super glue. It wouldn't wash out, it cracked and the first hole of many was created. More are soon to follow as they continue to grow thinner in places, but I'll mend them until they can be mended no more.
I cringed when I noticed the ballet pumps worn with bootleg jeans, I wouldn't do that now, ballet pumps are worn with skirts. It seems I've been subconsciously developing my own rules on what I should and shouldn't wear.
The black shirt dress has been worn occasionally, it's never been a go-to item but it's earned it's keep. In 2011 I was embracing hosiery for the first time in my life. And those boots. I loved those boots, I haven't stopped looking for a similar pair.
It occurs to me now that I should've taken these photos in the same locations as their 2011 counterparts, you'd see a much more organised wardrobe, a new bedroom carpet, the house painted a pale yellow instead of white and a different front door. Oh well... an opportunity missed.
It's been fun to look back over these items. They all hold so many memories, and have stories to tell. Clothes are never really just clothes are they?
14 comments
The shorts look good on you (in both pictures) and not too short at all. I'm not sure my thighs would even fit in a pair of shorts like that 😂
ReplyDeleteI recently got rid of my last pair of jeans. They were originally my sister's, then she passed them on to me and I loved them. I've been holding on to them for about 8 years but when the Texaid bag came round this time I finally admitted to myself that if I haven't fit into them for 8 years it's highly unlikely that I'll ever get into them again. I'm just not the same shape I was when I was in my 20s!
Thank you.
DeleteI can't imagine being without at least one pair of jeans, and I have held onto things for ages too, in denial that they no longer fit. I find it so hard to part with much loved items!
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I can assure you that there is nothing wrong with shorts in your 40s anything that makes you feel good is good ... having hit 60 I considered ditching bikinis but, what's the point of going to the gym to look after a healthy body, just to cover it up apologetically because it isn't looking like it did at 21!? I met Vintage Vix Vicky at the weekend - there's an example of ageless beauty - wearing what makes you feel good. It's all about confidence and sadly many of us British women seem to lack it.
ReplyDeleteThat's the key isn't it? wearing what makes you feel good. Bravo for holding onto the bikinis! Why do women feel the need to apologise for a body that ages, men certainly don't!
DeleteVix is totally gorgeous, I love her way of wearing what she wants and not giving a damn, and she always looks amazing!
I do have days when I just want to hide my body in baggy clothes, feeling the need to hide away because I'm not 21 anymore, but I'm working on it and wearing things I love definitely helps!
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How interesting to see how your personal style has changed and evolved in just a few short years. I always think it's crazy when something I absolutely adored and thought would wear forever is happily consigned to the recycling bag x
ReplyDeleteThings certainly have their moment in the sun.
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How lovely to look back in this way, you look as good in today's photos as you did back then. Isn't it funny how clothes can hold memories, I suppose that's true with lots of things.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed putting this together, and thank you for the compliment. I often remember specific times I've worn something when I see it hanging in my wardrobe.
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You look amazing in shorts, Hazel, and you should never ever take heed of any so-called fashion rules. It is really all about feeling great in something and having the confidence to pull it off. I'm now wearing things my younger self would never ever have had the confidence to wear! Good on you for wearing your jeans until they fall apart. Reading about the number of gallons of water used to produce one pair is a real eye-opener. xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you. I don't often take any notice of 'the rules', I think it was more about approaching 40 and wondering if things were still appropriate, it was something I had to figure out for myself, and over time I decided if I felt good in something I should wear it regardless.
DeleteThe jeans thing is shocking, how is it that this fact is only now coming to light?
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Shorts are brilliant and you look great in them! I do love the nostalgia of looking at our old clothing. I was just searching for a hat post on my blog which took me down the rabbit hole of old outfits from a decade ago and it was funny!
ReplyDeleteThanks Kezzie. I like looking back at old posts. Especially the outfit posts.
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Love the outfit recap and the stories behind each piece. Like me, you've definitely become more confident in front of a camera over the years!
ReplyDeleteI don't wear shorts very often not 'cos of any unwritten age rules just because I feel more "me" in skirts and dresses - I tend to wear them to set up our festival pitch or garden in them! xxx
I think I've found my signature pose - looking off to the side, never at the camera!
DeleteI wear all sorts in the garden, PJs mainly, but some tiny dresses that I'd never feel confident enough to wear in public.
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